Obituary — Jordan Witherspoon
Posted by Areth Gall on December 16, 2006
Normally I do not comment on personalities of military figures in Second Life. I leave that for people less biased than myself, for even if I were to eliminate the bias from myself, whom would be able to tell? News is news, facts are facts, and opinions are debatable. Yet, how do we obtain the truth? And whom is to say that just because we are charged with ensuring truth before we post it, that we actually do so? Anything that I can say about a military on here would be debated by their people. And because I am involved in militaries and these people, is there not reason to believe that I am bias?
However, it is due to my involvement in militaries that I choose to write this. And it is due to the character of the individual, about whom I write, that allows me to discard my worry about bias. For those of you whom believe that the statement I make is not true, I bid for you to go to the sim of Tethys and see the reality for yourself. It is with much regret that I post this. And it is my honor to be privileged with giving at least one place where she may be remembered.
The next Commanding Officer of the Alliance Navy’s Judge Advocate General will have large shoes to fill, for the Alliance lost one of their best. On Sunday, December 10th, Jordan Witherspoon, also known as Dorien Van Den Elshout, passed away at the age of 28. Complications of surgery that led to lung failure were to blame.
The Alliance Navy set up a memorial in Tethys. In the next few hours, some 200 odd people paid their respects. These people represented a variety of organizations, including members of the Merczateers, Grand Federation, German Army, as well as previous Novus Ordo Imperialists. Yet, this wide array of respects is incapable of showing what type of person that Jordan was.
This journalist met Jordan after one of the Alliance Navy II raids upon Tethys. The Alliance Navy II, also known as the AN II, would become the Venuma Coalition, and later, the Novus Ordo Imperialis. At the time, they were being led by Aryte Vesperia. I was a member of the Alliance Navy II, although my reasons for being so were to investigate what type of group the AN II was. After the conflict, I moved in and infiltrated Tethys, and found Jordan, whom had just logged on, and was trying to sort out what had occurred. It was there I spoke to her and asked for her help on identifying whom the true troublemakers within both the Alliance Navy, and the AN II.
Due to time restrictions, I was unable to complete that task, although I often talked to Jordan about flaws I saw, or tried to check my information with hers. Looking back, there were several times that we disagreed. And there were several times that we argued, that I was in the wrong. While I never got to know her all that well, Jordan was always there to hug me when I figured that out and apologized. I suppose I could say that Jordan was partially responsible for me retaining my sanity, amongst other things.
I never saw Jordan lose her temper or instigate a fight. She was always one of those people whom tried to solve problems with actual solutions, not rumors, nor any unseen tactics. She cared greatly for what she did, and she put many hours and much effort into leading the Alliance Navy down a path of righteousness. That isn’t to say that the Alliance Navy has never done wrong – but what goods it has contributed to Second Life, can in turn, be attributed to the leadership that Jordan provided. Indeed Jordan promoted from the Rank of O-5 to the Rank of A-1, Rear Admiral (lower half), as an honorary promotion that came after her passing.
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December 16, 2006 at 12:55 pm
Thank you all for your kind words, and your memories. Jordan / Dorien was a sister to all, always there to cheer us on when we were down. She was a good woman, and we all will strive to honor her memory as we celebrate our various holidays in the coming weeks.
For anyone interested in contributing, a memory book is being created for Jordan, made up of memories from all who had the pleasure of meeting her. To contribute to the book, please contact Nanao Mahfouz, or myself (Alenzia Epsilon) in game, as soon as you can, so that we can include your thoughts in the book, which will be freely available to all.
Thank you again for your words of praise and comfort for this wonderful, vibrant woman.
-Alenzia
December 17, 2006 at 10:27 am
I lost a good friend in Jordan. Its the only time I’ve ever cried over a person I’ve never met face to face… much of the past few days has been watching in IM or listening on Vent, as people logged on, found out, and either sobbed openly, or went totally quiet. This is the harshest blow any group can suffer, truely.
I don’t know if I’ve ever met anyone that strove as hard to help her group as Jordan did.
Anyone who wishes to come and pay respects, regardless of group allegience, is more than welcome… this is a RL occurance, and rises above petty in-game conflict.
That being said, there are already those who are taking their in-game issues into the real world and impuning my fallen friend. From sonic tuxing desecrating the memorial, to Jt Buridan screaming “Better dead than AN” while we stood mourning our fallen friend, to Griffin Yeats spewing insane rhetoric about how this was an AN trick. THese people lack even the common human decency that we all should be born with, and I pity them, and hope they get their just rewards.
THose few twisted creatures (I do not think they deserve to be considered human) aside, the majority of groups (The SturmKorps aside) have been more than gracious in this time, offering us a ceasefire while we all process it. And for that I thank them, and am more appreciative than I can say.
I could sit and prattle on, or quote til blue in the face, but I guess all I really will say about Jordan… nay, Dorian… is this.
She’s got her place in Valhalla now, and she’ll be the only Valkyrie with pen and notepad in addition to sword and shield. Fear the rules.
She’ll be missed.
December 17, 2006 at 2:05 pm
I day I found out about Jordan / Dorien’s passing away was a dark day indeed. She was a good person and the will be sorely missed by me and many others.
Jordan / Dorien I salute you O>
- Rob Shark
December 18, 2006 at 7:20 am
[...] Admist all the business and fun within Second Life, once in a while real life hits you. Our thoughts are with the family and friends of Dorien Van Den Elshout, who passed away at the age of 28. As Jordan Witherspoon she worked as part of the Alliance Navy. Whilst there may be much bickering over the role of the AN, we have colleagues and friends of eightbar who have lost a good friend. There is a much more fitting obituary over at Sltimes where it would be good to gather and remember Dorien/Jordan. [...]
December 19, 2006 at 9:37 am
Aye, it is a sad day indeed when one who showed the only human, caring side of the Alliance Navy passes away. She never tried to start fights or insult others unnecessarily. In my and Sparta’s personal opinion, and I believe Bruno Ziskey will agree with me here, Jordan Witherspoon was the most honorable and agreeable member the AN ever had, bar none. If only there were more Jordan Witherpoons in SL militaries, there would be less squabbling among them, and perhaps more order and decency. Sparta salutes Jordan Witherspoon, the most respected officer in the Alliance Navy, by Sparta’s standards.
December 23, 2006 at 2:45 pm
Jordan, you will be missed.
November 2, 2007 at 11:08 am
I wonder how much money Jordan has made from his shoe line? Probably in the billions!
November 28, 2007 at 3:23 pm
Hi.
Good design, who make it?
February 10, 2008 at 9:07 am
LOL, she got what was coming to her. But seriously its a publicity stunt.
February 15, 2008 at 1:23 pm
Griffin, you sir are the epitome of the term ‘cretin’. I am both appalled and disgusted by your very presence.
Re-hashing such an event to proliferate your own agenda is ignominious.